6. K: So between those rivals did there was there any situation or conflict that’s like conflicts between you guys that you could remember. I now that it was a while ago
KA: yeah
well I don’t know if I would called the people who bullied me my rivals but
K: well the
bullier or bulliee ee
KA: yeah
K: The
bullier
KA: yeah
K: yeah
KA: should I
describe that conflict or.
K: well I
guess you had some
KA: what
K: well um
do you remember if J was ever .like if there to help you with anything
KA: yeah um
I don’t know if she knew a lot of it was going on I can’t remember if she was…
cause it all happened in my science teachers class so I don’t remember if she
was in there or that class with me or not
K: yeah
KA: and I
don’t know if anyone else at the time said anything I just …..
K: yeah
KA: it
really mean and I did not know how…. to stick up for myself at that age so…. I
just ended up…. kind of miserable
K: aww
7. K: Do you like
remember when it happened during science?
KA: I can’t
remember when it happened during science
I just um I know I must have said something that wasn’t that educated or
I don’t know…either that or they were just plain bullies …. And they just…
maybe they did it to everybody else they just said some pretty harsh words and
haha I forget what they were but haha I do remember crying during class and I
remember it was 2 of the guys haha and…
K: you said that this was in 4th grade
KA: it was
in 4th grade yeah…
K: did this
happen in 5th grade or
KA: umm in
5th grade I don’t think they were in any of my classes so it did not really
carry over and in middle school at the time I never … like I know he was in one
of my classes
K: yeah
KA: but nothing was ever said after that haha
because I think everyone became a bit more mature
K: yeah well
you would hope that they wouldn’t be the way that they still are today
KA: yeah
hahaha I hope they would be matured after that and haha
K: cause
sometimes they know and sometimes they still feel like the world still revolves
around them
KA: yeah exactly
I don’t even think … honestly if I even ask them I don’t think they would
remember being mean to me back in the
day I don’t
K: yeah
that’s funny
8. K: did anyone
give you like any special advice either teachers or friends or any special
advice like how to handle all these situations
KA: … back
in the day probably not haha I just remembered after a while I started just
crying and not taking to anybody cause I realized that if I said anything
people would yeah that’s another reason why I was really quite in middle school
was because I was afraid to say anything I was afraid of being bullied after
that I was afraid that if I said something… and it came out the wrong way
people would take it differently and start making fun of me so I don’t know if
I got any real advise…. to me it was kind of like yeah I should not really say
anything
K: well
KA: I have a
fear of
K: well now you know that you cannot be afraid of
anything
KA: Yeah
K: yeah who
really cares now
KA: yeah
K: like if
there’s a point it is like well then you are just going to go do your own thing
but like whatever
KA: exactly
K: who cares
KA: if
somebody doesn’t agree with you then some pass
K: yeah it
doesn’t matter
KA: not
really yeah haha
K: okay do
you have any like now like speaking like right now have anyone special that you
can go talk to if like if something like this were to happen again
KA: oh yeah
I have a good support system now I know my friends will be will to help me like
if I came to you about something your be willing to help me with anything and S
of course
K: yeah do
you have any friends at college that
KA: yeah I
have friends at college who would be willing like there a great support system
now I go and talk to N about anything that’s on my mind at the time I talk to
her about all my classes and stuff like that I’m pretty sure that if somebody
started bullying me she would be the first person to stick up for me
K: yeah it
is kind of like your own little therapy session going on right there
KA: hahaha
exactly
K: ands it’s
free
KA: if she
there’s for me I’m there for her yeah that great
K: yeah now
speaking of like today the bully laws are so strict now like I actually had to
get trained to do the whole bullying and cyber bullying thing
KA: yeah
K: it’s so
huge now the reports and everything its crazy but if you saw a child bullied
today would what advice would you give them
KA: what
advice would I give them I would defiantly tell them to reach out and to talk
to other people to get help like if its child being bullied like they should
defiantly go to either a teacher of a friend or anybody and like somebody could
intercept or do something about it like defiantly stick up for yourself don’t
…. Don’t just take it … if somebody is being mean to you do something about it
K: hum
KA: yeah
don’t shy off the world which is what I did for a little while…. stick up for
yourself
K: yeah but
as much as
KA: don’t
throw punches
K: no no
haha
KA: haha
K: oh no
that would cause more trouble
KA: yeah
K: oh my
goodness um now will you going through this experience for your own sake how
will… will like will it help you in like your future and everything to try to
like see things
KA: yeah I
think I have a better perspective of of how people being bullied and how the
situation like I am going to work at a camp so
K: hum
KA: I have a
better perspective of what bullies like to do like how they go about bullying
other people so I have I feel like I’ll be able to see that type of situation
happening and if that happens I be able to like go and stop it from happening I
will like be able to like talk to both parties and what’s like happening and
make sure that they don’t do it either and talk to their parents
K: yeah that
a good way
KA: yeah
make sure to stop it before it happens
K: so is
there anything else that you would like to say about this topic or any like
other notes that you would like to say
KA: ummm I
don’t know if you see somebody being bullied haha do your best to prevent it
K: haha
KA: don’t
let that child be bullied
K: yeah
KA: and
don’t let yourself be bullied stand up for yourself hahaha um
The three questions
1. What three section/ stories feel most important to your focus?
-Done
2. What does the data show with respect to my focus?
- The three sections show what categories I have chosen the language, emotional connection and how they are dealing with being bullied today?
3. Which quotes would best illustrate the the points from question 2?
- Language:
K: well um do you
remember if J was ever .like if there to help you with anything
KA: yeah um
I don’t know if she knew a lot of it was going on I can’t remember if she was…
cause it all happened in my science teachers class so I don’t remember if she
was in there or that class with me or not
K: yeah
KA: and I
don’t know if anyone else at the time said anything I just …..
K: yeah
KA: it really mean and I did not know how…. to
stick up for myself at that age so…. I just ended up…. kind of miserable
K: Do you like
remember when it happened during science?
KA: I can’t
remember when it happened during science
I just um I know I must have said something that wasn’t that educated or
I don’t know…either that or they were just plain bullies …. And they just…
maybe they did it to everybody else they just said some pretty harsh words and
haha I forget what they were but haha I do remember crying during class and I
remember it was 2 of the guys haha and…
K: you said that this was in 4th grade
KA: it was
in 4th grade yeah…
K: did this
happen in 5th grade or
KA: umm in
5th grade I don’t think they were in any of my classes so it did not really
carry over and in middle school at the time I never … like I know he was in one
of my classes
K: okay do you
have any like now like speaking like right now have anyone special that you can
go talk to if like if something like this were to happen again
KA: oh yeah
I have a good support system now I know my friends will be will to help me like
if I came to you about something your be willing to help me with anything and S
of course
K: yeah do
you have any friends at college that
KA: yeah I have friends at college who would be
willing like there a great support system now I go and talk to N about anything
that’s on my mind at the time I talk to her about all my classes and stuff like
that I’m pretty sure that if somebody started bullying me she would be the
first person to stick up for me very strong in these two sections in terms of language
-Emotional Connection:
K: well um do you
remember if J was ever .like if there to help you with anything
KA: yeah um
I don’t know if she knew a lot of it was going on I can’t remember if she was…
cause it all happened in my science teachers class so I don’t remember if she
was in there or that class with me or not
K: Do you like
remember when it happened during science?
KA: I can’t
remember when it happened during science
I just um I know I must have said something that wasn’t that educated or
I don’t know…either that or they were just plain bullies …. And they just…
maybe they did it to everybody else they just said some pretty harsh words and
haha I forget what they were but haha I do remember crying during class and I
remember it was 2 of the guys haha and…
K: did anyone give
you like any special advice either teachers or friends or any special advice
like how to handle all these situations
KA: … back
in the day probably not haha I just remembered after a while I started just
crying and not taking to anybody cause I realized that if I said anything
people would yeah that’s another reason why I was really quite in middle school
was because I was afraid to say anything I was afraid of being bullied after
that I was afraid that if I said something… and it came out the wrong way
people would take it differently and start making fun of me so I don’t know if
I got any real advise…. to me it was kind of like yeah I should not really say
anything
-How they are dealing with being bullied today
K: yeah do you
have any friends at college that
KA: yeah I
have friends at college who would be willing like there a great support system
now I go and talk to N about anything that’s on my mind at the time I talk to
her about all my classes and stuff like that I’m pretty sure that if somebody
started bullying me she would be the first person to stick up for me
K: it’s so huge
now the reports and everything its crazy but if you saw a child bullied today
would what advice would you give them
KA: what
advice would I give them I would defiantly tell them to reach out and to talk
to other people to get help like if its child being bullied like they should
defiantly go to either a teacher of a friend or anybody and like somebody could
intercept or do something about it like defiantly stick up for yourself don’t
…. Don’t just take it … if somebody is being mean to you do something about it
KA: I have a
better perspective of what bullies like to do like how they go about bullying
other people so I have I feel like I’ll be able to see that type of situation
happening and if that happens I be able to like go and stop it from happening I
will like be able to like talk to both parties and what’s like happening and
make sure that they don’t do it either and talk to their parents
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